I see you because I've been exactly where you are.
You've done the therapy. You've read the books. You've had the hard conversations. Maybe you've even tried couples counseling. And some of it helped, but nothing has fully shifted. You're still disconnected from your desire, from your body, from the version of yourself who used to feel alive in love.
Here's what no one has told you: the missing piece isn't more mindset work. It's your body. Your hormones. Your nervous system. The physical foundation that makes desire, connection, and intimacy actually possible. When that's off, no amount of journaling or communication tools will get you where you want to go.
That's exactly why Love by Conscious Design™ works when nothing else has. It's the only program that addresses your mind, your body, your hormones, and your relationship as one connected system. Because they are.
If you're ready to find out what becomes possible when someone finally sees the whole picture, click below
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Does this sound familiar?
✓  Physical intimacy has become infrequent, mechanical, or completely absent and the distance it is creating is starting to feel permanent

✓  You've done the therapy, read the books, even had the hard conversations, and still nothing has fully shifted

✓  You are single or newly out of a relationship and the idea of opening yourself up to love and intimacy again feels more frightening than exciting

✓ You cannot remember the last time you felt genuinely desired or the last time you actually desired anything yourself

✓ Your libido has quietly disappeared and you have been telling yourself it is just stress or just getting older but something deeper tells you that is not the whole story

âś“Â Â You have lost yourself underneath all of the roles you play in life and don't remember who you are without them
If you just read that list and felt seen, I want you to know something: you're not broken and this isn't just in your head. What you're experiencing has roots in your body, your hormones, your nervous system, and the patterns that have been running underneath everything. 


Love by Conscious Design™ is the only program that addresses all of it together, in one plan built entirely around you. That's why it works when nothing else has.
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Let's address some truths & myths about your relationship...
True or False? If your labs come back normal, everything is fine.
True or False? Therapy is enough to rebuild desire, intimacy and a fulfilling love life.
Myth: If you have lost your desire it means the relationship is over.
Myth: You just need to relax and the desire will come back.
Real transformation does not come from changing who you are with. It comes from doing the work of mind, body and soul that changes what you bring into every relationship from here. When the root heals everything shifts. Not just the partner. Not just the dynamic. You shift. And you get to take that with you for life.
Click below to learn more and take the first step toward your transformation.
Hi, I'm Sarah Flores, a registered nurse with 15 years in emergency medicine, a functional medicine practitioner, and a holistic love, intimacy, and hormone coach.
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I hit my own breaking point when my body started shutting down, my identity had been built entirely around my career, and my love life was reflecting everything I was running from. I had lost myself underneath the roles I played and I couldn't figure out why nothing I tried was actually fixing it.
Here's what I discovered: the answer wasn't just in my mindset. It was in my body, my hormones, my nervous system, and the deep patterns I had never addressed. When I finally connected all of those dots, everything shifted. Not just my health. My relationships. My desire. My entire life.
That's why I built Love by Conscious Design™. It combines everything I wish someone had offered me: hormone testing and real data, nervous system work, embodiment and intimacy practices, and deep identity coaching, all in one place, with someone who has actually been through it. I'm not coaching from theory. I'm coaching from lived experience, and 15 years of clinical training.
